Multiple hosts. Win2024/hyperv and proxmox
- domain/dns/dhcp/ncp 2x
- pihole
- iobroker (smarthome)
- sonarr/radarr/orowlarr
- emby
- sabnzbd
- vpn-vm for torrent/soulseek
- searxng
- dav for calendar
- caddy (for emby/dav from outside)
- firefly (banking)
And some minor, less important ones.
All backup to a central server, which does a daily backup of the backup onto another nas. In case of emergency,just grab nas.
Check out xmpp. Wouldn’t know of anything remotely as useful as tgram. If it’s just about messaging yourself, you could also continue using tgram and doing your own encryption with your own bot for sensible data.