None of the popular/successful apps are bad.

They usually have great ui/ux and are being actively developed or at least maintained. Think google maps, apple wallet, or of course discord. What is hot garbage, however, is having to accept massive privacy violations if you use them. Vencord unfortunately does not mitigate that. :(

I would happily pay for yt premium, if that also meant that google does not violate my privacy and sell my data.

Ich hatte bisher eine gute Experience und trotz Vserver auch keine merklichen Geschwindigkeitsprobleme.

Der einzige Faktor, der aus meiner Sicht sehr ausbaufähig ist, ist die serverseitige Verschlüsselung. Ich verwende aus dem Grund Rsync zur Verschlüsselung, was aber irgendwie auch nicht so ganz Sinn der Sache sein sollte.

I really like it. Yes, you have way more control by using docker/nixos/etc of course, but for things like seafile or nextcloud, yunohost does the good ol’ 80% job with 20% of the effort and time, at least for me.